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I am born not rich but rich in love. I have a good family, good friends. I already taste the life's bitterness but also taste life's sweetness. I am just simple, Friendly and understanding. GOD fearing. I believe in GOD so much. I just cant explain it here but deep in my heart I know , I feel it.

Sunday, January 20, 2013

365 days being Married!!

As many knows that marriage is an everlasting commitment that you vowed and promised in front of GOD the Almighty. Thus it is a holy bond blessed by the Holy Spirit. Although lots the world today doesn't honor it that much. As we see nowadays lots of marriage been broken by divorce; separated and etc. Everyone has there own reason for breaking it and yet in the eyes of GOD nothing is valid reason at all.

But anyways; I am 365 days being married. Means I am 1 year living not a single status. Those days was a lot of adjustments. Everyday is an adjustment for me and my husband. I know we are so enlove to each other and we love our family but it doesn't mean that problems like misunderstandings never come up. There were ups and downs. Sometimes I feel like I am not free to do things I wanted to but I guess its part of the adjustments; letting go of things I used to do.


There were times I look back my life and it made me miss some of my good old days. Be with a group of friends; dancing; laughing; joking; meeting new friends; exploring new places and adventures. I am not a party girl but I did enjoy bonding with friends once in a while. Those things that really made my singleness colorful and memorable. But I have no regret setting it aside over my family. Because having a family is indeed a new adventure to me; being a mother; a wife; a playmate; and a teacher. Another thing; having a round belly; fitting new big pants; trying hard to melt that fats that gives me a chubby cheek bone; its a sort of adventure; isn't it? (lol)

I know I am still in the first phase of Marriage and I know I still have more adjustments to do in time. As many say that adjustments vary 6 years of being married. But I guess; everyday; every year is an adjustment period. I don't know what lies ahead of us; of us being married. I just do hope that GOD will make our marriage more stronger and fruitful for us and I also; also do hope that we will have many more years to come being together as a family; 50 years you could say.

Above all; I am Happy.

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