Family Trip to Hong Kong!!

Our trip to Hongkong was something memorable although it was not the most favorable. We had an unexpected payment we have to deal with the immigration at the airport. We had problem with our hotel reservation.

My husband already booked the hotel before we fly but the moment to the hotel it ends up that the room was not paid off. We had the printed copy of the booking but the hotel person insisted that they didn't charge it because they don't accept the credit card that my husband was using to purchased and pay the room. There was a long discussion for misunderstanding with the owner of the hotel and some staff that ends up us being told to find another hotel.

Since we thought that everything was paid off, so the budget we had was just enough for something we could plan for the rest of the days including foods. We had no extra budget to get for another hotel for even on that day. I was scared and felt like crying because my mind run so fast and think we will end up in the streets. And the place where we at, at that moment was not the safest place. We felt so helpless.

The good thing happened was that there was someone who I never met on person neither my husband but only on that very day, offered help despite of her being busy. I only know her sister Cristy, who was my classmate during college. Her name is Nicelyn Selatona. She was truly and angel sent by GOD for us along with her sister Cristy and the Church people. She met us in the airport and accompanied us to the hotel that we were supposed to stay. But because of the circumstance we bumped in to, she lets us stayed at her place for all days instead.

At her place we got to enjoy the beach and picking up shells and clams. The boys were enjoying swimming in the beach, trying to catch or run away from the waves. My family got to experience things we never experience. We been in a fast craft ferries....in a train....double deck buses...got wet in the rain in the first day and the last (we just think it was a blessing :) )...witnessed the thunders and lightnings strike with a strong wind that feels like would lift you up.

We are thankful for all the people who helped us and made sure we are safe and protected. I cannot put into words how thankful I am to be able to met you all and received the blessings of GOD.

The vacation was not really planned but grateful coz GOD had planned it for us. Overall it was quiet and experience.

Again from the bottom of our hearts we "Thank you" to GOD and "Thank you All!"

Things Happen in GOD's Time

Things been sometimes smooth and sometimes rough as we go on with our journey being married and being a family. We never know what lies ahead of us. As like what is going to happen in few months from now. Before jumping on whats gonna happen the soonest, I would like to go on to a little bit detail.

One thing that truly we can say an accomplishment is that, my husband James already got his permanent resident visa here in the Philippines. And we thank GOD so much on that. Finishing the process was full of ups and downs. Sometimes we have different decision that ends up with nothing in good. Several times we went to Cebu Immigration thinking everything was prepared and okay but then in the end of the day nothing good happens because of some new processing requirements. As the night in the hotel, things seems to bitter that time. We can't think good, we both were frustrated and exhausted, trying to figure out how to get the additional requirements.

Although sometimes hope was very little to be notice but we keep the courage and make things as if good. We never waste a time to be able to get the additional requirements. Good thing we have my father in law (Larry Strand) who always there with us every time we need help. He never said "no" although sometimes we feel ashamed because it would be additional work for him aside from his work. He never fail to make us feel his love as a father although we are far from him (He is in America and we are in the Philippines). We feel so blessed to have him as a father. We love him so much!!

Anyways, we got all the things needed for my husband's (James) permanent visa paper. And it got approved and his passport been stamped with permanent visa status. Another good thing, Bureau of Immigration Cebu staff and personnel were nice and good. Thank GOD, one step closer.

Now, since James is done with the process, we are preparing for the things for our two boys to get their temporary resident visa (they all need to go through temporary before having the permanent resident visa). The boys stay here in the Philippines will soon to end. They are given 3 years to stay as a tourist visa. And they are in their 2 years and 9 months stayed already. So we have little time to do the process. 3 months in exact then one more 2 months extension to stay.

Now, the problem is we cannot submit the application in Cebu since I am not the biological mother of the boys. So we were told in the information window in Cebu BI that we need to submit the application in Manila, the main office of Bureau of Immigration. We felt a little bit down, we both prefer Cebu not only that we are already familiar with the area and knows whose person to talk to but also it is closer where we live. We live in the Island of Mindanao. But we have no choice but to follow the instruction.

We gather all the requirements needed. We include all possible extra papers needed encase they will ask. So we went to Manila together with the boys (Xavier and Xylon) on Sunday May 11, 2014. We stayed at Garden City Hotel. In the following day we went to BI main. They gave as form. We filled up the form. It took us time to filled it up because we want it all right and good to go. We submitted it to the person incharge for assessment. All paper requirements was there except that we need a red ribbon/authentication for the boys birth certificate. We were told to go to DFA (Department of Foreign Affairs) to get the red ribbon.

So we went to the DFA (it was like 11:00 in the morning). We were shocked to see the long line. But still we don't care, we want it to be done. We were given a form to fill up. After that we fall in line. It took us almost an hour to have our turn. It would have more than that time but the good thing was the guard let me fall in line closer to the window and just let James and the boys have their seat. I don't know why maybe because I am with a foreigner and kids.

Then it was my turn, I gave the paper to the person in the window. I was happy because its my turn. But the happiness within didn't last long when the person said my paper needs to be authenticated first by the US embassy consulate Manila or by the Philippine embassy nearest to the place where the document was originated (which means in the USA which is impossible for us). I so wanna cry. I can feel my eyes was burning, I know anytime tears will come out. I just need to take a deep breath before I need to talk as James sitting looking at me with a facial expression like "What's wrong?".

Form from DFA. He checked what we need to do first!!

So we had an option to go to US embassy for authentication. So we went to the US embassy (Almost 1:00 in the afternoon). We talked to the guard and he said we cannot get inside unless we have the appointment. He gave us a paper for an instructions on how to get an appointment through online. After that we went to eat lunch and went to the hotel to set for an appointment. The earliest available slot was the 21st of May which is 9 days more to wait. So we don't care, as again we want it to be done. So we got the date and printed the Appointment.

US embassy Appointment was set and printed!!

As I read more on to the US embassy site for notarial or authentication, as I want to be aware on what possible requirements do we need to bring with in time. I felt so discouraged when I read that the US embassy will not authenticate documents issued in the United States. My heart was to down. I told James. I cannot hold back but to cry. I don't know if James seen me, as I also feel that he was exhausted and so down to think that all effort we did ends to nothing. We were both silent. The only ones who were chirpy and happy were to two boys (Xavier and Xylon). I looked at them very innocent didn't know what's happening. And it made me cry more. I went to the bathroom, took a bath, to hide my tears and disappointments.

This is what I read in the website of US embassy when it comes to authentication of documents!

Since nothing will gonna happen that day or the following, we talked and came up with a decision to go to somewhere outside the Philippines to spend a night or two. We have no choice but to exit the boys in the country since their paper was the only one to have a problem. Now the problem is I won't be able to go with because I don't have passport. James said it would be more comfortable for me to come with because he cannot look after the two boys alone since he is broke and the boys are so active. But the fact is I won't be to because I don't have the passport.

So we decided to go home. We talked to a travel agent to get an available flight going to Ozamiz. And still no good because all flight is fully book. Even the neighboring cities flight which is near to our place Tangub City was fully book. So we end up getting the flight from Manila to Cebu and then we will just ride a ferry going to Ozamiz.. And the cheapest ticket for all of us was still very expensive flight. Still we have no choice than trying to get cheaper ones which is 4 or 5 days away which means we need to pay for another night in the hotel then the expenses for food, its not wise.

Our ticket booked for Cebu!!

At the night before the flight to Cebu, James asked me how long will I get a passport. I don't know. So I tried to search in the site on the requirements on getting a passport. I just need a renewal since my old passport was in my maiden name still. I checked and I have all the requirements except that Guidance and Counseling Certificate from CFO since my husband is a foreigner. So I told him when we get to Cebu maybe I can attend for a seminar for CFO to get the certificate we need for the passport. And take note we haven't book a ferry ticket yet because the travel agent didn't have access to other ferries aside from 2go which was fully book. We both think that we can get the ticket once we get to Cebu and we are pretty sure that the time of the departure will be at night. So I will have enough time for the CFO seminar.

Early as 3:00 in the morning (May 13, 2014) we went to the Ninoy International Airport Terminal 3, waited for our flight to Cebu. The kids were so good boys they never whine when we woke them up very early. The flight was delayed because of some passenger documents they need. We arrived at Cebu Airport at 7:35 in the morning.

Boarding Pass for Cebu!!

We went straight to the hotel pier cuatro to leave our baggage then start for another thing. We went to SM mall so we can get a ferry ticket but sad to say they don't have access no more to the ferry cokaliong. So we tried to asked the TransAsia but they are fully book. So we rode a taxi going to the main office of the Cokaliong ferry. There we got ticket and James decided to depart on May 16 because he wants me to get the certificate. So if ever we will not get the certificate this day atleast we have enough time to get it. So went back to the hotel then had early lunch so the boys can have a rest as we feel that they are tired.

While the boys were resting, I searched the address of the CFO building in Cebu. I saved in my phone. After a little while we get ready for another thing. We ready the boys and we went to the address of the CFO building, we rode a taxi . The good thing is it was just near to the hotel we are staying. We didn't know. So we went upstair and talked to the guard and inquire the requirements. The guard asked for our marriage certificate(original and photocopy), birth certificate (original and photocopy), valid IDs (old passport, philhealth and BIR id - original and photocopy). He gave me a form to fill up and let me wait for my name to be called.

I was just there to asked for requirements I did not mean to have it process that day since we all were tired and we want to have a little long rest. So I just sit and wait. Waited for 1 and a half hour. Then the guard asked me if I already had a picture taken I said "no". So he talked to the personnel incharged and then the lady called my name and had my picture taken, gave me back all my original documents and told me to prepare 400 pesos for payment. So I payed and I sit back but the guard told me that I will have the seminar on room 1. I was surprised because I thought they would give me a schedule to when I'm going to have the seminar since the slots they had that day was already closed. But I thank GOD for that.

So I went to room 1. There were lots of people there waiting for the seminar. Most were applying for spouses and fiancee visas. Then the guard told us that US and Canada bound transfer to room 3. So we did. Then the we have a lady counselor. She is pretty and young. She was firmed on her word but so nice. Then after the seminar we were asked to went outside the room and wait for our name to be called for one on one interview with the counselor. The seminar took like 3 hours.

While outside I talked to a lady, a spouse going to US. We talked about life and all just to passed time by. I was the last one interviewed. The counselor asked about the previous marriage of my husband. My husband was widowed twice so she asked for death certificate of his wives. She asked picture of us together. She asked for my husband permanent resident card. She asked how many times my husband visit me. The first time we talked each other. When we become boyfriend-girlfriend. She was nice the whole interview. She asked me if we have plans to travel. I said "Yes in Hongkong". Then he told me to submit a photocopy of the permanent resident visa of my husband and death certificate of the previous wives.

I submitted what the counselor asked and then they released the certificate. The counselor smile at me and told me "Goodluck". I was so happy and so relieved. We thank GOD so much on that.

Guidance and Counseling Certificate after CFO Seminar. Excuse my face I was just tired.

In the following day, Xylon's grandmother (she let me called her Mama Becky) called and asked if she can get the boys and let them stay in their house. We said yes. She will going to pick up the boys at the night after her work. And Mama Becky said that we can apply for a passport in Cebu. Our plan was to get the passport in Cagayan de Oro City but since we have plenty of time we will try to get it in Cebu DFA. And so in the afternoon this day we went to DFA at Pacific Mall. We went to the 4th floor and asked to were is the line to get a priority number. There were so many people waiting. The guard asked us from where we at, I said Mindanao. He let as come inside and talk to the person in the information so I will get a number. But the lady incharge said that they are already close. The applications they accept were already more than 500. So she told us to come back tomorrow at 6:30.

 In the following day May 15, 2014 at 6:00 in the morning we went to DFA. Holy molly.... there were already very long line of people who wants to get passport. We don't have choice but to fall in line. At 8:30 the guard started to gave numbers. We waited for 2 and a half hours to get the number. I got the priority number #416. The person told us to come back at 3:00 in the afternoon. James requested if he can have a coffee before we go back to hotel. So he ordered coffee and cold milk for me. After that we went back to the hotel, had breakfast since it was just 9:30 the hotel were still serving.

After 3 hours we went back to DFA. Lunch time. Then the transaction resume at 1:00 pm. Still lots of people were waiting. The number they were calling were still at 250-275. So we waited in the corner. At exactly 3:00 oclock the guard were calling number from 401 to 425. Finally my number was called. I went inside waiting for my turn. Then submitted all the requirements for assessment. Then submitted the paper to window 2 for payment. Then waiting. After 40 minutes I was called then I payed. The guy told me then to go to encoding section. I was happy but then gosh I need to fall in line again. I thought the people who are sitting inside the room was just people waiting but then the line was until outside the room.

So I waited again. After 2 and a half, I finally got inside the room. The another 45 minutes to wait to finally my turn to have a picture taken, signature and finger print. Then the person who took a picture told me to wait in the corner my name will be called. I waited 5 minutes, then the lady called my name and gave me back some of the documents. Then she said you are done. I asked her if there is a way I can just have it delivered because we live in Mindanao. She told me to talk to the LBC inside the other room.

So I went inside and talked to a person incharge. He asked for my receipt, I gave him my receipt and he said they can't deliver my passport because in my receipt it said "Hold". I was worried why it was "Hold" then he asked me where is my old passport.

I gave him my old passport  and he said my passport was not canceled that's why they put "hold" on my receipt. I told him if there's any way I can asked for someone to cancel it. He said only the person who assess my application can cancel it. But the problem was, the person already went home since it was already almost 7:00 in the evening. I asked if I can come back tomorrow to get it canceled they said "YES". The scary thing happened this day was there an earthquake. The building was shaking and I really felt it. It was scary especially we were in the 4th floor. But everything was okay, no damage so far.

So, its Friday. At 10:00 in the morning we went to DFA and  had my old passport to be canceled. It took us 30 minutes to make it done. Then I went to the LBC booth they have inside the DFA office. They took my official receipt of payment for my new passport. I payed 120 pesos. And then he gave me receipt with tracking number.After that we went to SM to have lunch and will see our boys (Xavier and Xylon) because their Auntie Mai will going to bring them in a pizza hut.

Receipt I received from the LBC courier that will deliver my passport at home!!

We get the boys then we let them play and have fun for 2 hours. At 4:00 oclock in the afternoon we went back to the hotel and pack all our things and ready to go to pier 1.

Arrived at Cebu port pier 1 at 4:45 pm. Got into the shuttle cub at 5:50. Get inside the ferry and settled at 6:15.

Cokaliong Ferry ticket going home!!

Arrived at Port Ozamiz at 5:15 in the morning. Home Sweet Home at 7:00 am.

Flying to Hongkong is confirmed. So in GOD's time, we will be flying together. My prayer now is that I wish I can get my passport as soon as possible. GOD will bless us all!! We trust it all to HIM.

And today I tried to cancel the appointment we have to US embassy Manila but I can't get through, it always said "Appointment not found or the information you entered is incorrect". I did it many times making sure information I typed is correct. I keep trying and trying but eventually I gave up.

Message I received every after I cancel our appointment to US embassy Manila!!

We thank GOD so much because although things weren't as what we had planned but things went okay as alright,  GOD made it all favorable to us after all!!

GOD bless us everyone!!   

P.S. Pictures just taken today!!

My Valentines 2014 : The Happiest!!

One day and 3 hours before valentines day my husband surprised me. A very simple gift but for me its already one of the best.

I always asked him before when we will be able to have a sweet dance. And he always laugh because he knows and I know that he couldn't. He has a broken leg and was once had a metal rod due to the car accidents he had been through. He lost his balance and will fall easily. But I keep asking him every once in awhile and part of it is sometimes just to mess up with him and I know what his answer would always be.

So tonight, the kids were in bed and I was busy monkeying around the computer. My husband was upstairs then he came down with his laptop and put it in the living room. He came to me, hold my hand and brought me to the living room then he told me "Bear with the stick." (he always refer this to himself when it comes to dancing). I have no idea what he was trying to do. So I asked "What Stick?". He turn off the light, so just the light from the computer was left on. He played the music "I can't live without you" in youtube. I didn't know he had a music prepared.  Probably he waited to get all the music done in youtube so it won't be choppy when played since we have a very slow internet connection.

He put my arms in his neck and wrapped his around my waist and start dancing slow. Turning around, hugging me. So my reaction was laughing-then silent-giggling-then laughing-then silent. My reactions made me look like crazy. I couldn't speak, I just can't believe it. My once a upon a time request and now this is it "WE ARE DANCING". I can feel he was so conscious with his every step because of his balance but I am helping him so we won't fall.

Then from  laughing-giggling, I got silent and I started crying, the emotions and feelings made me. I still couldn't believe it that he will do it and he did it. Maybe to some, dancing with your partner is just and ordinary thing but to me, it means alot.

This is my greatest valentines and the happiest!! Thank you very very much my Hunny  James Nonweiler. And you really surprised me tonight. I love you, I love you and I really really LOVE you!!

Remembering a beautiful Angels in Heaven!!!

This post is not pertaining to me and my family. I am writing this one to remember 2 beautiful angels in heaven. I don't know them or meet them in person but they are important to me and to my family especially to my two wonderful sons Xavier and Xylon.

Desy Napitupulu Nonweiler
December 31, 1975 - January 21, 2007

This is Desy Napitupulu Nonweiler. According to her friend, she was a great friend and loves to joke around. Although it was just a very short time you had held Xavier in your arms but I am sure you were a great Mom to him and a wife as well. I want you to know that Xavier been growing a very smart kid. I can see in him your eyes and your lips. He loves you and he knows you and you will always be remembered. In right time or in GODs time, Xavier will be able to meet your family ( I wish one day ).

Maria Karla Mabulay Nonweiler
August 12, 1982 - January 14, 2010

This is Maria Karla Mabulay Nonweiler. She was a great mom, an amazing wife, a great friend and a wonderful daughter as well. She had a strong love to her family and friends. Xylon got your attitude. Your family already meet him. They love him so much as the way they love you. You are missed by everybody. Xylon is such a smart kid as well although he has the stubborn attitude but he is sweet as you were.

This note is to tell you both that you are all remembered by everyone that knows you and loves you. You were once a great friend and inspiration to everyone you had known and met. 

You will be forever young in everyone's heart. For sure you will always be remembered and will never be forgotten.

A Goodbye 2013 and a New Beginning 2014

The year 2013 is a bit bitter-sweet for us. It is always present in life the ups and downs, but we are thankful that through it all we keep our spirit strong to face it all and here we are, welcoming a new year and a new beginning of another amazing and colorful year.

Remembering all the panicking moments we had.

May 2013. When James broke his ankle. We went to have an xray of his foot and the doctor said he needs surgery. We were worried because we don't have much trust of the doctor here specially in our place. My husband was in so much pain for like 3 weeks. Seeing him in the situation was like a stab on me. And because our budget was so tight that time so it ended up that we visited a massage therapy dude (hilot guy in the philippines). And slowly James ankle put back in its place. We had like 4 times to do massage.

June 2013. When we applied for the amendment of James Permanent Visa, during the application it wasn't accepted because the immigration put additional requirements which we didn't knew. We needed to submit NBI clearance for him and a police clearance from his home country. Getting the NBI clearance for him in the Philippines was not easy because we needed to travel all the way to Manila because NBI branches nearest our place won't release a clearance for foreigners. They always refer it to the Main Office. So we went to Manila apply for the NBI and the worst was it won't be release at the same time but after 2-3 weeks. So James traveled with my father after 3 weeks and in GOD's grace he got it. So now, getting the police clearance from his country, I did a lot of research on how the process to obtain one. We did all the paper required and sent it via DHL. The good thing Daddy Larry (Thank you so much Dad) got a copy of his police clearance so we got a copy earlier than we expected. We still received the reply from FBI (USA) after like 3 months. And this time we already submitted the application in Immigration Cebu.

September 2013. James application was sent back to Cebu from Manila office and was not approved yet because of the signature lacking. The lawyer during the interview forgot to put a date on the paper. So we needed to hang in and wait again for another months.

Remembering all the sweet moments we had.

January 2013, was our first anniversary being a husband and a wife. And for me being a mother as well. There was so much changes in my life from being a simple office worker and a cultural dancer. There were lots of adjustments. Dividing my time for my husband and for my kids. But I will say I am proud of myself...well GOD made me proud of myself because I did it all...say its "a good job".

May 2013, when I passed the Civil Service Examination. I really believe the saying "You reap what you sow". I remember the hard times we had. James trying to be a father and a mother this time. After my work during weekends I can't stay home because I needed to go to school for a review. And James and my family was very supportive. And I did all extra possible things to learn and study. And YES I passed. And thank GOD.

June 2013, finally my "once a dream" dream come true. I was transferred and hired as a teacher in a college school. And I pretty much love the job. Although I missed my work and my workmates but the resent job I have is I am happy and content. :). Another thing happened this month was we were able to visit xylon's Family in Cebu again. We got the chance to visit his Mommy Angel Maria for the second time. It was a fun and another memorable moments. Full of emotions and happiness. Thanks be to GOD.

August 2013, we moved to our own house. Another adjustments since I never been away from home with my parents and other siblings. But oh well, I am married its interesting to discover life just with your own family. We are establishing our own life and family here. And so far, I love it.

November 2013, James permanent Resident Visa here in the Philippines was finally approved. It was a very happy moments  receiving the good news. Finally all the effort was paid off and its one step closer.

December 2013, James received his Permanent Resident Visa I-card. And now its time to work for our boys visa as well. Another thing Xylon's grandma Becky also visited the boys in our house. And the boys got the chance to spend time with their grandma. It made our year-end very fulfilling.

The year is quiet interesting and a bit thrilling. But we face it all with faith in GOD Jesus and believe that HE won't let us down. GOD is truly amazing and always been with us through the whole year.

The first and above all, we thank the HOLY one above that continue to guide us and look at us in every step of the way. We are nothing and will be completely lost without HIM. We "thank you all" for all the people that GOD sends on our way as an instrument to do HIS WILL for us. For our family and friends here in the Philippines and the US, a very very BIG thank you. The thankfulness we felt cannot be expressed into words but truly in our hearts "THANK YOU".

Now a sweet ending 2013 and an amazing a promising beginning of 2014!!

GOD bless us all!!!

New Work and New Surroundings!!

GOD really never fails. I was once dream to be a teacher one day. And yes GOD gave it to me. I never expect I will be come one. And so I find myself here in a new surrounding and new people although some of them I knew already. And this means New Adjustments. But I have no regrets instead I feel so happy and blessed.

Today I started being a teacher in a college school. First it was a bit awkward because I have always this in my mind that I should be correct in everything I say and discuss since students are looking and listening at me. I am starting to research my possible discussion coverage for the subject I am handling. I know I have a whole lot more to do since I need to refresh all what I have learned during my college plus today it is more advance, need to learn new technology as well.

So far my first day of school is quite interesting and ends well. I checked the attendance of my students and giving them some pointers and brief coverage for the subject.

One long day has just been ended and a new long day will just begin. Good luck to me.

GOD please guide me!!

Yay!! I passed the Examination!!

Right this moment I am overwhelm of the good news I heard. Just last night I received a missed call from my teacher in my review class. But I wasn't able to hear it because I was on my way home from work riding a motor cycle. So when I checked my phone and seen the missed call I immediately messaged my teacher apologizing and told him why  I wasn't able to answer. So...he called back and told me the word "CONGRATULATIONS!! You Passed the Exam!!" I was stunned and asked him "Are you sure Sir?" After the examination we were told by the examiner that we will know the result of the exam after three months and yet its just one month passed. So I asked my teacher again "Is it really me Sir?". So my teacher told me "Okay...let me read the name again. NONWEILER EUGIELEN T". And I said... "Ohh... that is really me...! I thank GOD so much for that. I so remember my feeling after the exam.. I felt so easy and at peace... I didn't know the reason and now I know; GOD let me win it for me. And thank HIM so much!!

In the office today; one of my office mate came to me and just shook my hands and I was like "Huh!!" She said congratulations euge from our City you are the only one passed the exam.. The reason why I don't want to celebrate the happiness in the crowd because I don't wanna offend those who did not pass. So I just celebrate within myself.

But anyways above all things... I thank GOD so much. I Believe it is GOD who help me PASSED the Exam!! Praise the Lord above all things!!

Loving my husband so much more!!

April already passed and I am still dividing my time from being a working mom and a wife. I do all my best to give time for my family. Doing my best to be a good wife and a good mom.

Last Month was not so friendly to us. I had been busy in my work as well as to my studies. And my husband James is busy building our house so we can move in this month (hopeful). But I doubted it now since something not good happen to my husband.

Just the other week, my father and my husband was ready to go home after working and building our own house for the whole day. They have each own pedal bike to ride home. My papa went on the road first knowing that James will follow. Since my papa still have some errands to do at home (pasturing the carabao and cow), he didn't wait for James.

While James left there getting his bike, he came across to this roof where there was an un-pound nail. Looking at it, he was itching to make it done. So he climbed into the ladder to get it hammered. As he reached halfway to the top, he lost his balanced and causes the ladder to shake and he had no where to hold. He was thinking either to jump or not. If he won't jump, his head will bump to the corner which will cause more worst. So he jumped, but ALAS it was a wrong timing. As some knows that my husband's legs were in so much surgeries before because of the accident he had been through. He undergone many operations. His right leg works good than his left one. And now the worst is he landed on the floor with his left leg. This leg of him cannot bend no more due the stainless that once being put inside to support and help the bone connect each other. So it ended that he broke his ankle.

James foot after one week!!!

Early in the morning after that accident, my papa built two crutches to help him. It is made out of the wooden stick that James bought for our own house. It is not as comfortable as what we can buy in the store but it was made out of love. James put a cloth around the arms  and handles so it will be a little comfy for him. James feel being so love by my family and I am very much thankful on that.

Crutches my Papa built for James!!

We had his leg x-rayed and yes he had a fracture around his ankle and the doctor said he needs surgery. And James doesn't trust doctors specially around our place and plus the fact that his leg is already been messed before. We went to a massage guy to put back his ankle in place. And it turns out good because after that he can move his foot up and down. Thanks to GOD.

Its already 2 weeks passed by and still he cannot walk by himself. Although time fly so fast but never I missed a time to take care of him. I still manage to divide my time for the extra care for him. It hurts me seeing him in the situation. If I can only carry him every time he moves to one place to another I would. I sometimes took him to town and park to passed time by. I gave him bath every other night (his request since he mainly do nothing for whole day but sit and read the bible). I massage his foot sometimes and it feels good to him. And while doing it, it made me wish if I can only have a share of his pain I would so that it wouldn't be as painful as it is to him". But there's nothing I can do but to be always there for him and love him in that way he will feel as ease.

Took James and the boys in the park after church!!

So April was not as good as the Month of March for us. But still we are thankful to GOD that there is no major worst things happen. Yeah my husband broke his ankle but it could be worst if it was his head. GOD save the month for us. And because of what had happen I am loving my husband James even more.

With our some church friends!!

I took CS Examination!!

I am done taking my Civil Service Examination. Last night I couldn't sleep well thinking that today will be the day.

Yesterday, I spent my whole day with my friend Rose in the City Cafe. She will be taking the exam as well. We were studying for the exam. I was hoping  that some of our classmate will come join with us but they weren't able to.

Anyways the exam was quite difficult. Well, most of the takers said so and I am one of those...hehe. I had been thinking so much of this Exam. That I hope I will pass and all of my classmates and friends who will take too.

During the exam I was nervous because I was almost late. The examiner told me to hurry up. (And to mention, one of the takers wasn't able to come because I saw one vacant sit in front of me). My body was cold and I feel stunned but I pray to GOD to please calm me down. I didn't expect to be late because I thought I was early enough. But I was wrong, maybe it was because I used 25 minutes of it walking in the road and waiting for a ride.

Answering and reading the test paper was really giving me tense feelings. For me it was, because my mind was so much consume on "Am I right?", "Is this correct?" and another thought which driving me nuts was to make sure its not a mess when shading the answer sheet. We were being told the right way to blacken the sheets because the checking machine is very sensitive. So we should keep the answer sheet clean and tidy.

Thank GOD because I got to answer all the questions (To GOD be the Glory). I remember my feeling after the exam. I felt like very light, I feel like I was floating. Maybe part of it was that "finally I am done and no more studying and thinking for the exam".

Outside the campus where the exam was held, I saw my teacher and some classmates in the review center. They were waiting for me and others. We gathered together and say a prayer that GOD would bless this day and the exam and that we will be successful.

For now Only GOD knows. Whatever would be the result everything will be according to GOD's will and his Purpose.

But I pray GOD will grant us the best!!

Today is my Birthday!! March 2013

Today is March 7, 2013. And it is my birthday. As usual my day is okay and I am not getting older yet. I just  feel like getting more grown up and young.

We didn't do any birthday party for me but my husband doesn't forget to made my day special. He talked to me and told me sweet words and pray to GOD for having each other in each arms. We are not blessed with many things on earth but we are truly blessed with so much love and understanding, joy and laughter.

There is no other best gift GOD give to me other than having my family : my husband, my sons, my parents and my other siblings.

Another part of my day was my friends at work celebrated birthday with me. Some of my friends greeted me and showed some old pictures when I was still in the dance troupe. I admit it, I miss the troupe and I sometimes dream of dancing in the stage again (haha). I remember me being silly and joker that made everyone laugh.

I remember early this morning I woke up hearing my name over the radio and thanks to Ate Bethser for announcing my birthday on air.. haha.. It really gave me a smile in my heart. And it made my day special as well.

Above all of these I thank GOD for giving me another year. And I know HE will keep me on his eyes as I will go and face another year of HIS Glory.

One thing I should I accomplish this year!!

Now, its already March and there is one thing I really wanted to get accomplish this year since I have been wanting this to be done for almost 3 years. But because of my busy-ness I couldn't do it right then. And now I am aiming to do it this time.

Well, it is not a very big deal for everybody but atleast for me it is. The thing I am talking about is the CIVIL SERVICE EXAM (CS-Professional). As for now I am enrolling to a review class because I wanted to be prepared. I once took this exam last 2008 (I guess, I couldn't remember) but sad to say I wasn't able to get the passing score. Well, I was not upset about the result because I was not prepared and was not aware of the importance of passing the exam. I thought it was just an exam, just like the quiz in school. And since now that I know , so I wanted to get it this year. My examination will be on April 14, 2013.

I hope GOD will help me get through this one big goal of mine.

My Awesome Valentines Present!!!

My husband is a kind of a sweet person but most of it he doesn't show it. He just make me feel especial in his ways.

Well as February a Heart Day; as they say; Out of my knowledge my husband James secretly buy a thing for me for Valentines Day. We always go grocery in the Mall but this time he really finds a way that I won't be able to come with him instead bring my Papa with. His reason was he doesn't want me to know he will have something for me.

Well Valentines is here and I was surprised to received this. And it really made me special. And who would have not melt the heart to read such touching message. They are such a very sweet and loving family. And I am blessed; very blessed. And I love you all the best way I can. I love you my husband and my two wonderful kulit kids!! :)

365 days being Married!!

As many knows that marriage is an everlasting commitment that you vowed and promised in front of GOD the Almighty. Thus it is a holy bond blessed by the Holy Spirit. Although lots the world today doesn't honor it that much. As we see nowadays lots of marriage been broken by divorce; separated and etc. Everyone has there own reason for breaking it and yet in the eyes of GOD nothing is valid reason at all.

But anyways; I am 365 days being married. Means I am 1 year living not a single status. Those days was a lot of adjustments. Everyday is an adjustment for me and my husband. I know we are so enlove to each other and we love our family but it doesn't mean that problems like misunderstandings never come up. There were ups and downs. Sometimes I feel like I am not free to do things I wanted to but I guess its part of the adjustments; letting go of things I used to do.

There were times I look back my life and it made me miss some of my good old days. Be with a group of friends; dancing; laughing; joking; meeting new friends; exploring new places and adventures. I am not a party girl but I did enjoy bonding with friends once in a while. Those things that really made my singleness colorful and memorable. But I have no regret setting it aside over my family. Because having a family is indeed a new adventure to me; being a mother; a wife; a playmate; and a teacher. Another thing; having a round belly; fitting new big pants; trying hard to melt that fats that gives me a chubby cheek bone; its a sort of adventure; isn't it? (lol)

I know I am still in the first phase of Marriage and I know I still have more adjustments to do in time. As many say that adjustments vary 6 years of being married. But I guess; everyday; every year is an adjustment period. I don't know what lies ahead of us; of us being married. I just do hope that GOD will make our marriage more stronger and fruitful for us and I also; also do hope that we will have many more years to come being together as a family; 50 years you could say.

Above all; I am Happy.

Going on today!!

Few more weeks and its gonna be Christmas again. My favorite Month is coming so wow. Anyways, its been a while I haven't updated my blog. As my world this last few months was turning upside down due to some life barrier as they say.

Anyways things for me now is slowly flowing smooth. My brothers are well good. One already have a job in the  a big mall. And the other one got just a part time job which is pretty good than just a standby and doing nothing but yet needing goods everyday.

I don't remember if I mention here that we are building our own house. Its not that we don't like to live with my parents and siblings. Its just like we wanted to explore life with our own. Living and making things with our own opinions and decisions.

Some update with my first student kid (Xavier)... haha... I remember him at first, he was so excited waking up in the morning because he has a class at 7:30 which is wow to me because I seen in him the excitement and curiosity what's in the School. But that was just in a short time. After a week of going to school and waking up early every morning he feels tired. Every time James woke him up to get ready himself for School he kept saying "I am resting Dad, I am still sleepy".  He even asked me "Mom can I skip class today?" Which is a NO,NO to me... He asked me how come that his classmate skip class but I said he is not his classmate... LOL...  He always get excited when its Friday because he knows that on the following day he doesn't have class and plus he can sleep late at night.

And my other kiddo (Xylon). He also is excited to go to School as well. Although he doesn't go to school this year yet, I can see in him his excitement. He walks around the house with the school bag of his elder brother as if he is going to school. Wearing his brother's School ID and even wear long pants for school. Haha... a goof ball he doesn't even know how to tie his shoes.

And James. We are so happy, well very much thankful to the Heavenly Father. His 13a visa in the philippines already stamped in his passport. It means no need for us to go to Immigration to extend his stay here. Less hassle and less expense. Now we are on the process of applying the same thing for our two boys. We don't know actually what would be the process since I am not the biological Mom but well I believe GOD will help and direct us what to do. As we were applying for James visa we didn't pay a lawyer to help us through. As we bumped to some who done it already and also people around here, saying that we really need a lawyer to somewhat made it faster and less hassle. But paying a lawyer for that is somewhat a heavy financial in our pocket. We tried to actually asked what would be the possible cost when we apply it by agency and said it would be like  90,000 pesos. What!! That's crazy.. then we should practice eating only 3 times a week to save... hahaha. So then we did it by our selves. I did researched everything possibly needed. Much better to be front loaded with things than missing some required docs which is not good because the Immigration is pretty far from our home. We can't just pay a taxi and go home get the paper and back to the immigration that would be so awesome for us but the truth is IT'S NOT.

For me. Things kinda rough for me. Atleast only in my own opinion. It's really different when you wanted to accomplish something but at the moment you can't because you are facing things you need to do. I believe everyone have a dream. And I do have dreams but achieving one dream at a moment is kinda hard for me now. Not that I don't have the urge to do it so but its just that time is not enough. For now on, I will make it as a goal to be accomplish next year. I long to make this done 2 years ago but wow this year will almost end and yet I did nothing about it. I will make it my number one goal for myself, a gift for myself. I wish and hope and pray that it would be GOD's will for me... Who knows.. ONLY GOD knows. But I should not also forget my obligation to my family as a wife and as a mother. Family priority first. Oh wait... GOD first then follows the family.

Anyways an update of my family.

My Husband "I love you like no other "

I want you to know that I love you with all my heart. I will never cease of loving you till our hair turns to gray and breath turns to heavy. There is nothing in this world I could have ask more, than having you and be in your arms always. I will never ask for more leisure and luxuries in life because to me you are far more greater than those earthly things. You are given by GOD to me and so you are the greatest gems GOD had gifted and entrusted me. Thank you for coming into my life and of never giving up on me. And above all I THANK GOD for bringing and guiding you to me to share HIS majestic gift - LOVE. I love you so much hunny James Alex Nonweiler.

Life is slowly getting okay!!

GOD is really good. As we had been in so much downfall this last few days or month but then GOD never really leave us to be fail in the darkness.

My elder brother Jungie is actually a happy, funny and  good dreamer.

My family is slowly recovering from the crash shock. My elder brother was already been release in the detention jail and he promised and will do his best to change in a good ways. I do hope and pray that he will truly change. I believe he can as long as he believe that GOD will make it happen for him. I know how hard he tried to be sided with GOD but the attraction of temptation and bad influences were so high in him. Thus he always fail to come closer to GOD and see His light.

My other brother is also now moving on to his life. I wish him goodluck to his examination next week. He passed for a work and will start to work last week of this month. Congratulation and I am happy for him.

Me and my family (my own). We were in a family day celebration in the school of one of my kid, Xavier. It is family day where parents are invited in the school. There were lots of fun game and ofcourse yummy food to eat. My husband James played fun games along with the other parents and ofcourse I did too. But it was kind hard because I played volleyball. Haha... It's been awhile haven't played this game but oh well it was still fun.

In all things came into our lives this year I keep thanking GOD because HE never fail to support and carry us to be strong. He is our strength in all the times.

GOD Jesus Christ please be always our strength. And keep up in your way. Bring my family and friends with you and held us in your hands so we will never get lost or will lost again.

GOD is truly amazing

Right now we are facing difficulties in life. Not only for me but for my entire family. I truly love my family (parents, brothers and sisters) as I love my own (husband and kids).  Our lives these days is such a struggles.   So much bumps hit in our road that we never expect to come.

Firstly, it started with when my elder brother engaged in a motor accident. We weren't there when it was happened. Some said he was half drunk while driving. And I think its possible. He got hit hard in his head. He was confined in the hospital for a week and decided to go home even if he is not fully okay yet. One reason was financial incapacity.

Second, my younger brother struggled in heart matter. He and his gf were tested. His gf left him for some family reason. It was kind of a state of shock for us because his gf is already so close to the family and they already are 3 years being on. We love her and treated her as one of our family. It hurt us to see that it all ended up like this. I seen and witnessed how my brother cried to me, to my parents, to my cousins and my sisters. I know he tried to be strong and focus. We keep telling him to be and ofcourse to trust in GOD above all. Everything happens for a reason.

Third, my sister who is going to graduate this coming march will have an educational tour in Cebu which will cost couple of thousands. An unexpected happening she wasn't able to be one of the scholars in the City for the reason of failure in her one of the subject. We were obliged to pay for her tuition fee which I didn't expect would happen. So the money we saved for her tours was being used for the tuition fee plus most of it was used for the medication and hospitalization of my brother who engaged in an accident.

Fourth, my elder brother brought some problem in the family that forced us to put him in jail. It was the most frustrating night for me and for the family. He came home drunk and went wild like he didn't have control to himself. It brought anger and trigger the family that put him into the situation.

Its just the quarter of the year but its like a curse for us. It brings so much emotions, frustrations and struggles for us. But inspite of all of this we keep praying and begging GOD to be our guidance and counselor. We believe he is truly the best counsel and guide in every way. We keep hoping that in everything we been through now, it has reasons.

We keep visiting my brother in detention jail to give him courage and talked about how truly GOD is amazing. We keep strong and believe in GOD and have faith. GOD will never leave.

Another to mention while we were visiting my brother in the jail, the Police officer in Tangub asked my husband (James) complete name, age, marital status and his address in the states as well as mine (name and address). The lady police took picture with the Police officer together with me and James. I seen one police outside riding in the police car saying to take James name and address. He said that its for security reason. Since he is a foreigner and living in the City so they are like liable. I thank GOD for this atleast its feels more safer. But oh well nothing is more safe in GOD's hand anyway.

In the positive side, at the night  before the flight for the tours of my sister, her instructor called and asked about her if she is coming or not. Its been set and we had been talked already that she will not join the tour because we have nothing to let her go with. And its okay for her that she wont be able to graduate this year. So her instructor said that he will pay for my sister in the tour provided that I will pay it next month which is okay for me because in that maybe I will have my salary. GOD is truly GOOD. Her instructor even told me to just pay it half at a time then the other half on the next so that it wont be too much for me.

Another blessing received James 13a visa application is approved today. We never expect it because someone told us that it will get approved prolly 3 to 6 months. And oh yeah its just 2 months from the date we applied for it and wow... what a surprise from GOD JESUS we received.

I thank GOD for everything. For all good and bad. Thank you Lord for having a family that rely on you and for having a husband who is very supportive and very understanding. Kind hearted who never give up on us. Who is always there to comfort and keep telling us the bright side in GODs hands. Thank you very much my LORD JESUS CHRIST. Please continue to guide us and bring us to YOUR WILL!!

Xavier singing Lupang Hinirang

Xavier is now in school. It is not easy for him because he doesn't know visayan much and much more in tagalog. We speak at home either visayan or english. He understand some of the visayan.

Learning the Philippine National Anthem is so hard for him. Aside from he doesn't know what it all means; the filipino accent is hard for him but he is learning though.

My James My husband's 33rd birthday!!

Birthday banana cake for my Love Husband!!

Its my husband's 33rd birthday. And it's his second birthday here in the Philippines. He is now adjusting to the surroundings and weather.

James with his Banana cake!!

Ready to blow the candle.....

My family is loving him so much and is used to be with him and the boys. James sometimes miss some of his life back home in the states but me along with my family always here for him. He is loving every moments being with the family and I am so thankful.

Birthday Greetings from sis!!

My sister made him a specialize card just simple but it worth more than a card in the mall. We prepared him just a simple birthday celebration; thanking GOD for a year full of blessings.

Prayer before meals!!!!

Food was being attack.....lol!!

Enjoying.......

Everybody is busy.....

The day was a blessings from GOD.