Anyways things for me now is slowly flowing smooth. My brothers are well good. One already have a job in the a big mall. And the other one got just a part time job which is pretty good than just a standby and doing nothing but yet needing goods everyday.
I don't remember if I mention here that we are building our own house. Its not that we don't like to live with my parents and siblings. Its just like we wanted to explore life with our own. Living and making things with our own opinions and decisions.
Some update with my first student kid (Xavier)... haha... I remember him at first, he was so excited waking up in the morning because he has a class at 7:30 which is wow to me because I seen in him the excitement and curiosity what's in the School. But that was just in a short time. After a week of going to school and waking up early every morning he feels tired. Every time James woke him up to get ready himself for School he kept saying "I am resting Dad, I am still sleepy". He even asked me "Mom can I skip class today?" Which is a NO,NO to me... He asked me how come that his classmate skip class but I said he is not his classmate... LOL... He always get excited when its Friday because he knows that on the following day he doesn't have class and plus he can sleep late at night.
And my other kiddo (Xylon). He also is excited to go to School as well. Although he doesn't go to school this year yet, I can see in him his excitement. He walks around the house with the school bag of his elder brother as if he is going to school. Wearing his brother's School ID and even wear long pants for school. Haha... a goof ball he doesn't even know how to tie his shoes.
And James. We are so happy, well very much thankful to the Heavenly Father. His 13a visa in the philippines already stamped in his passport. It means no need for us to go to Immigration to extend his stay here. Less hassle and less expense. Now we are on the process of applying the same thing for our two boys. We don't know actually what would be the process since I am not the biological Mom but well I believe GOD will help and direct us what to do. As we were applying for James visa we didn't pay a lawyer to help us through. As we bumped to some who done it already and also people around here, saying that we really need a lawyer to somewhat made it faster and less hassle. But paying a lawyer for that is somewhat a heavy financial in our pocket. We tried to actually asked what would be the possible cost when we apply it by agency and said it would be like 90,000 pesos. What!! That's crazy.. then we should practice eating only 3 times a week to save... hahaha. So then we did it by our selves. I did researched everything possibly needed. Much better to be front loaded with things than missing some required docs which is not good because the Immigration is pretty far from our home. We can't just pay a taxi and go home get the paper and back to the immigration that would be so awesome for us but the truth is IT'S NOT.
For me. Things kinda rough for me. Atleast only in my own opinion. It's really different when you wanted to accomplish something but at the moment you can't because you are facing things you need to do. I believe everyone have a dream. And I do have dreams but achieving one dream at a moment is kinda hard for me now. Not that I don't have the urge to do it so but its just that time is not enough. For now on, I will make it as a goal to be accomplish next year. I long to make this done 2 years ago but wow this year will almost end and yet I did nothing about it. I will make it my number one goal for myself, a gift for myself. I wish and hope and pray that it would be GOD's will for me... Who knows.. ONLY GOD knows. But I should not also forget my obligation to my family as a wife and as a mother. Family priority first. Oh wait... GOD first then follows the family.
Anyways an update of my family.
