A message to my father

Right from the start, I know how hard you have worked for us. And I know you have done everything just for us. And I understand why you sometimes are so strict to us when it comes to our education. Maybe it is because you don’t want us to experience the sufferings you were experiencing during your time.

I remember the time when I was still in high school. I asked you, that I would like to go to school as a working student. And you strongly disagree because you said that you can handle our education. Although as what I see is not. It was so difficult. You were also thinking at the time that maybe the reason why I wanted to go as a working to student because I want my freedom so that I can so whatever I wanted to.

No! It’s not like that. I am not asking it for the reason to escape from your rules and regulations. What I wanted was just to help you. Purely just that. I tried to make you understand but then you refused to listen. I understand you coz maybe it was your pride and ego.

But it really breaks my heart to see you working hard. You even make the night like a day just to get extra income. And honestly, I was not happy to see you as if happy but so stressed. You were just pretending. I was so young but I feel what you feel. I know how great was the burden you had in your shoulder.

And do you remember the letter I left in the altar? It was the first letter I wrote for you and for mom. And it was the first time I expressed the feeling I feel awkward to tell you both. A letter expressing how much I love you and so thankful.

And now, for the second time around, I am not shamed nor feel awkward to tell you “How much I love you”. I LOVE YOU DAD!! I love you. And please don’t work hard as what you used to before, because you are not alone, I am here now. We will work together. And share with me the burden you feel. You are not alone now.

And please don’t ever think that I long to leave home. It’s always been my pleasure to get home with DAD, MOM, sisters and brothers around. I know time will come that I will have to leave home but that doesn’t mean that it’s the “END” or to forget you. Never! I will still be around. You will always be my father.

Dad, I am always been proud of you. I am proud to call you my DAD. I am not ashamed to show the world that you are my DAD, my FATHER, my PAPA. And I will so my best to make you proud of me. To make you feel worthy. I may not be your famous daughter but I will make you a famous father.

We are not rich in money and in wealth but we are surely rich in love and discipline. That makes you the famous father.

I have so much more to tell but I can’t as I am hardly make this straight because I am shedding tears.

Always remember………………..
I LOVE YOU PAPA straight from my heart.
I have no regrets.

Your daughter,
EUGIELENE

Twin Fiona and Fayne

This pics I am posting here is the twin baby of my Ate Arcelie. Their names are Fiona and Fayne. They were named by Ate Jenjen who is now living in London with her husband.

The purpose I am posting this is upon the request of my Aunt Arcelie which I like to do too. Well, I already posted their pictures here before when they were still 2 months old. I think you can find it in the archives section.

Another reason why Im posting this is for Ate Jenjen. Hello ate Jenjen, here are twin fiona and fayne. Actually, I have a lot of their pics but I got no chance to post it here because it cannot fit here so much. But if you want to see the other pic its in the flicker in the left side of this blog as well as jacob, jason and Ate Arcelie.

Anyways, Ate Jenjen if pwede may I have your email add para next time kung naa ko picture nilang fayne

ug fiona I can send it directly in your email. Because what I can post here is just a minimal number of pics..

GOD Bless you ate Jenjen and to Kuya Paul too.

Peace and Love of GOD be with you all always..!!

Mao ni ako email add ate jenjen eugie_3784@yahoo.com

SEX, FAMILY and LOVE in accordance to GOD

Sex

It’s on billboards and TV, in magazines and movies. It’s in the music we listen to, and floods the internet. Sex is suggested by styles of dress. It’s been used to destroy the innocence of children and has made a mess of way too many lives.

Sex is definitely here to stay. Easy to get, anytime with whomever, no commitment, and no responsibility.

But sex has come a long way from the original design GOD intended. That’s right – believe it or not, sex was designed by GOD. He created men and women different physically for the purpose of sexual intimacy. Although one purpose for the sexual relationship is for bringing children into the world, GOD also planned for sex to be pleasurable.

Everything that GOD created has purpose. But it also has order. GOD’s design for sex, then, must be enjoyed within the boundaries of marriage, love, and a lifetime of commitment. Beyond this, sex results in confusion, conflict and chaos.

Outside marriage, sex does not build up self-worth, but rather destroys it. Those who use it as currency to “buy” things they want emotionally or physically end up bankrupt.

Sex that us practiced outside of GOD’s plan has long term consequences, like the heartache of unwanted pregnancies, abortion, rape and other forms of sexual abuse. Then there is the long list of tragic sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV/AIDS.

GOD’s design for sex is something quite the opposite and a whole lot better! Those who wait until marriage not only avoid the dangers of premarital sex, they are also setting themselves up for a lifetime of discovery, satisfaction and fulfillment within marital love. And that’s something worth waiting for

“If it feels good do it, right? Besides, we’re in love.” Thought 1

* There’s a lot of confusion about sex. But GOD’s plan is clear. He made sex for a husband and wife. This physical union is part of the commitment these two people share.

GOD”s desire is for you to be pure in every area of your life, including your sexuality.

* If you make the choice to wait to have sex until you are married, you will find that GOD is in the business of keeping you pure and helping you out when you are tempted. He offers strength and places in your heart the desire to do what’s right.

* If you have already had sex outside of marriage, GOD is in the business of second chances. He offers forgiveness and a fresh start.

If you have ever been forced to have sex, GOD is in the business of restoring what has been stolen from you. He offers healing and freedom from the pain of the past.

“It’s your choice” Thought 2

Family

The family is the most important social structure of any society. The choice of a lifetime marriage partner is certainly one of the most important decisions a person can make.

Every family is unique, with each marriage partner bringing experiences and values from his or her own family. Unfortunately, there is no such thing as a perfect marriage, a "marriage made in heaven." There are, however, principles that, if followed, will help each family to be all that GOD intended it to be.

First, is the foundation of love. Jesus demonstrated this principle by laying down his "rights" when he came to earth to live as a man and died onthe cross. If we truly love our spouse and our children, we would be living to lay down our lives so that they mights live in some emergency situation. The true test, however, is if we lay down our rights and demands on others inthe everyday situations of life. Love is proven not just by the words we say, but also by our actions.

Second, is the foundation of respect. Family members must show respect for each other, even when there is disagreement on a particular matter. This is where healthy communication plays an important role. If we offend in any way, we need to quickly ask forgiveness.

Third, is the foundation of commitment. No matter what happens, commitment is necessary for a family to survive. There are many voices in contemporary society that tell us if the marriage is not working, just get out. But this is not the solution. GOD is the solution and help can be found through prayer, studying GOD's word, and the wise counsel of those who love GOD.

Fourth, before you marry, be at peace with your own family as much as is possible. Unresolved conflicts will often be reflected later in the relationship you have with your husband/wife, children and in-laws. Ask forgiveness of those you have offended and forgive those who have offended you, no matter how deeply you have been hurt. Freedom comes when we learn to forgive others in the same way that GOD has forgiven us.

"I just can't get along with my family. I can't wait to leave home." Thought 3

Love

According to psychologists, the most basic human need is to love and be loved. There is no power greater than love. It can motivate people to do things for others they wouldn't normally do. Some even give up everything for the sake of the one they love.

But if love is such a beautiful thing, so essential to life, why is there so little if it in the world? Why is there so much hate? The answer is simple. True love is more than a sentimental, gushy feeling. Love is a decision, a choice we each must make. Teh greatest demonstration of love is to give our life for the person we love. GOD did that. Even before we were born, he demonstrated his great love for us when he gave his only son JESUS to die on the cross for our sins so we could have forgiveness and eternal life inhim. That is what love is. It gives, selflessly, even sacrificially. It unconditionally provides for the one that is loved.

This kind of love comes only from GOD, for GOD's very being is love. So when men and women rebel against GOD by settling up their own value system, rejecting the authority of GOD, they lose the very source of true love, that is GOD.

Away from the source, love becomes temporary rather than lasting. It becomes selfish and demanding. It seeks what it wants rather than the good of the one that is loved. It takes, rather thangives.

But when we connect with GOD, his love enables us to love others as he loves, even our enemies. We can love others without expecting or demanding anything in return. GOD's love gives and forgives. It is constant, dependable, and lasting. It fulfills and it satisfies the deepest need.

This kind of love is free and available. We only need to come and connect with GOD through his son JESUS CHRIST, and that love will flow freely in and through our hearts to others.