GOD will lead the way. Keep the faith, hope and courage. Believe in miracle. There is no impossible to GOD. "Put GOD on top of everything you do and you wouldn't go wrong because in GOD we trust and nothing hard at all"
About Me
- Eugielene (Ladaga) Tulin Nonweiler
- I am born not rich but rich in love. I have a good family, good friends. I already taste the life's bitterness but also taste life's sweetness. I am just simple, Friendly and understanding. GOD fearing. I believe in GOD so much. I just cant explain it here but deep in my heart I know , I feel it.
Thursday, December 10, 2009
My Life
Friday, October 09, 2009
What tomorrow could bring!
In my journey today, I really don't know where will I be going. It's so hard to say that I really have to do this and that. Because I am thinking of things beyond my power. It's kinda frustrate me to see the hardships of the people sorrounds me.
I know I have more than words to say here but I have to cut it until there, because I don't want to sound so emotional. I want to be myself as a cheerful one.
GOD bless everyone and more power!! I will be posting more on this, I promise!!
Friday, September 25, 2009
Interesting book
Anways, I have read this quote from a famous writer Leo Buscaglia in his book titled "Born for Love"
"Knowlegde comes by way of ignorance, so we ought to be encouraged by what we don't know"
For me, it's perfectly true. Why? It is because, being an ignorance of one thing, our curiousity becomes bigger. And because of curiosity you got knowledge about such thing. Same thing goes from the quote "You learn from your mistake". But you know, I had talked to someone who doesn't believe that mistake can make you learn. I don't know his explainations behind. But he said that "why wait to make mistake in order to be learned if you can learn without doing a mistake". I got his point. What he wanted to say is that, we can learned without doing wrong. That if we know that its not good to do so, why go?, better do the right one. But in some instance not all situations are like that. There are some things that you can tell that you are right but in the end it was a mistake. And after that you can tell then that "Ah, I made a mistake" . And from that mistake you become cautious that next time you really need to consider some areas. And one thing, somethimes MISTAKES can make you stronger. It somehow give you courage that you would be better next time.
I have read lots of books, because it is so interesting to learn and know the opinion or simply an advice to someone you knows best than us. In that way, it can make us awake in reality.
See you next time guys.
Wednesday, September 09, 2009
A Touchy Story
SON: 'Daddy, may I ask you a question?'
DAD: 'Yeah sure, what is it?' replied the man.
SON: 'Daddy, how much do you make an hour?'
DAD: 'That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?' the man said angrily.
SON: 'I just want to know.. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?'
DAD: 'If you must know, I make $20.00 an hour.'
SON: 'Oh,' the little boy replied, with his head down.
SON: 'Daddy, may I please borrow $10.00 ?'
The father was furious, 'If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish behaviour.'
The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions.
How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?
After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think: Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $10.00 and he really didn't ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.
'Are you asleep, son?' He asked.'
No daddy, I'm awake,' replied the boy.
'I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier' said the man. '
It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the $10.00 you asked for.' The little boy sat straight up, smiling. 'Oh, thank you daddy!' He yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills. The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father. 'Why do you want more money if you already have some?' the father grumbled.'Because I didn't have enough, but now I do,' the little boy replied. 'Daddy, I have $20.00 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.' The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son,and he begged for his forgiveness.
It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that $20.00 worth of your time with someone you love.If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days.
But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family...
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
Marriage Joins Two People in the Circle of its Love (Edmund O'Neill)
the best that two people can find and bring out in each other.
It offers opportunities for sharing and growth
that no other relationship can equal.
It is a physical and an emotional joining that is promised for a lifetime.
Within the circle of its love,
marriage encompasses all of life's most important relationships.
A wife and a husband are each other's best friend,
confidant, lover, teacher, listener, and critic.
And there may come times when one partner is heartbroken or ailing,
and the love of the other may resemble
the tender caring of a parent or child.
Marriage deepens and enriches every facet of life.
Happiness is fuller, memories are fresher,
commitment is stronger, even anger is felt more strongly,
and passes away more quickly.
Marriage understands and forgives the mistakes lifeis unable to avoid.
It encourages and nurtures new life,
new experiences, new ways of expressing
a love that is deeper than life.
When two people pledge their love and care for each other in marriage,
they create a spirit unique unto themselves which binds them closer
than any spoken or written words.
Marriage is a promise, a potential made in the hearts of two people
who love each other and takes a lifetime to fulfill
The Art Of A Good Marriage ( Wilfred Arian Peterson)
A good marriage must be created.
In marriage the little things are the big things.
It is never being too old to hold hands.
It is remembering to say "I love you" at least once a day.
It is never going to sleep angry.
It is at no time taking the other for granted;
the courtship should not end
with the honeymoon, it should continue through the years.
It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.
It is standing together facing the world.
It is forming a circle of love that gathers the whole family.
It is doing things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice,
but in the spirit of joy. It is speaking words of appreciation
and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.
It is not looking for perfection in each other.
It is cultivating flexibility, patience,understanding and a sense of humour.
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow old.
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.
It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal,
dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal.
It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner.
Monday, August 24, 2009
Question: Is using sex to get what I want all that bad?
Yes, First of all, sex is not a "strategic move," like in a game. It is so much more. GOD created sex for a husband and wife. It is powerful part of their commitment, love and intimacy.
Secondly, sex is way too powerful to "use" to get what you want. Outside of marriage it can easily "backfire" on you, resulting in emotional letdown, guilt, an unwanted pregnancy or many possible diseases.
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Nice Quotes
2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.
6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
7. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
8. Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
10. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
11. There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
12. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.
13. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.
REMEMBER: WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON.
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
Friday, August 07, 2009
Nowhere to go
Sometimes, I have this feeling to like something but after some hour change my mind. Huh, sometimes I really dont understand myself. But then there's nothing I can do about it because its my personality. I just hope that everything will be okay for me..
Tuesday, August 04, 2009
I come to meet you (by: Helen Steiner Rice)
And as I linger here
I seem to feel You very near;
A rustling leaf, a rolling slope
Speak to my heart of endless hope.
The sun just rising in the sky,
The waking birdlings as they fly,
The grass all wet with morning dew
Are telling me I just met You.
And, gently, thus the day is born
As night gives way to breaking morn;
And once again I've met you, God,
And worshipped on Your holy sod.
For who could see the dawn break through
Without a glimpse of heaven and You?
For who but God could make the day
And softly put the night away?
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Quite Disappointed
I've long to change myself, to change EUGIELENE to somebody else but I never thought that the result make me disappoint. I feel like a dump after all. It wasn't so bad, but I feel that its not good at all.
Maybe somebody would say that he or she dont understand me. Yeah, its true,.. I agree. Because even me doesn't understand myself. I dont know where to place, where to start. I dont think if I need somebody else to fix me up or is there someone who can fix me. I am like a piece of paper teared down. Im like a broken glass.
What should I do? Do I have to wait what might come into my way? Do I have to be in a corner, just to keep silence? Where should I place myself?
I have so many questions that haven't answered. I have so many prayers and hopes. And I do keep praying and hoping that someday.. that someday...and someday everything will not be the same again. That my wheel of life will be at the top again.
Friday, July 24, 2009
I been so busy doing this fronline services. This first week of August will be the launching and I need to produce 50 copies of the handbooks and 100 copies of the booklets. I know its gonna be busy but I hope I can make it before the deadlines comes. So, as of now pray for me and wish me luck in everything.
GOD bless everyone!!
its me
EUGIE
Friday, July 17, 2009
Time to Change
Another thing I wanted to change about me is my being innocent. Maybe its time to open up my eyes to something I am not familiar of or have no sense at. I don't want to stay ignorant. I am mature enough to know the world and what life brings. But I assure that what changes it would be, its not for worse.
I know and I feel so blessed to think that there are someone out there who really dont want me to change because they want me to be me as what they used to knew me at the very first time.
To David, thank you so much for being so good to me, I know it brings impact on your mind when I put the quote "Time to Change". You were thinking that I was thinking in a negative way. And that evil thoughts came up in my mind. It doesnt mean change myself from good to worse. No, its not. I love myself and I love my family. Having a friend like you is like a treasure. I will stay good.
And to George Riley., I wanted to thank you too for the concerned you are showing upon me. We knew each other not too long but I can sense that you are a good person to rely on too. You somehow inspire me in somethings in my life. And I really hope that part of you will not change. And I wanted to assure you I will never change for worse. I just wanted to grow up and face the world.
I hope that I am be welcome of this world of constant changes.
GOD bless everyone and more power!!
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Life and Destiny
It is true that we can give the best we have after we experienced frustrations and heartaches. "Have courage", most spiritual advisers say.
A teacher grows through his experiences with the students and other people with him or around him. He learns from the pains.
A student learns from his experiences and the past mistakes.
It is surprising that bad things happen to good people. You hear it everywhere.... in the family, in the community and even in the church. Life's unfairness touches anyone regardless of anything.
However, GOD has good news for those who are persecuted in one way or another and have suffered for justice and righteousness' sake. They will be especially blessed and gloriously and abundantly rewarded. He reminds us to hold unto HIM faithfully with love for HIM and for our neighbor. To perform the greatest miracle in our lives, we obey faithfully the 4 great laws of success in Og Mandino's "Greatest Miracle in the World".
1. Count your blessings.
2. Proclaim your rarity.
3. Go another mile.
4. Do anything with Love 'coz Love is the greatest....
One day in our lives we will realize the truth that GOD really will give us what we need, thus, our hidden desires and human longings will be fulfilled.
Cheer up!!! Smile and be Happy!!
(VCF)
Friday, July 03, 2009
Know what "Reality" is?
So, here is some of the reality that world brings...
Guys can live without LOVE but not without SEX;
Girls can live without SEX but not without LOVE.
Guys give LOVE to get SEX;
But
Girls give SEX to get LOVE.
So SAD but TRUE. :(
This is true in real. Well, part of human behavior between men and women.
Thursday, June 25, 2009
A message to my father
I remember the time when I was still in high school. I asked you, that I would like to go to school as a working student. And you strongly disagree because you said that you can handle our education. Although as what I see is not. It was so difficult. You were also thinking at the time that maybe the reason why I wanted to go as a working to student because I want my freedom so that I can so whatever I wanted to.
No! It’s not like that. I am not asking it for the reason to escape from your rules and regulations. What I wanted was just to help you. Purely just that. I tried to make you understand but then you refused to listen. I understand you coz maybe it was your pride and ego.
But it really breaks my heart to see you working hard. You even make the night like a day just to get extra income. And honestly, I was not happy to see you as if happy but so stressed. You were just pretending. I was so young but I feel what you feel. I know how great was the burden you had in your shoulder.
And do you remember the letter I left in the altar? It was the first letter I wrote for you and for mom. And it was the first time I expressed the feeling I feel awkward to tell you both. A letter expressing how much I love you and so thankful.
And now, for the second time around, I am not shamed nor feel awkward to tell you “How much I love you”. I LOVE YOU DAD!! I love you. And please don’t work hard as what you used to before, because you are not alone, I am here now. We will work together. And share with me the burden you feel. You are not alone now.
And please don’t ever think that I long to leave home. It’s always been my pleasure to get home with DAD, MOM, sisters and brothers around. I know time will come that I will have to leave home but that doesn’t mean that it’s the “END” or to forget you. Never! I will still be around. You will always be my father.
Dad, I am always been proud of you. I am proud to call you my DAD. I am not ashamed to show the world that you are my DAD, my FATHER, my PAPA. And I will so my best to make you proud of me. To make you feel worthy. I may not be your famous daughter but I will make you a famous father.
We are not rich in money and in wealth but we are surely rich in love and discipline. That makes you the famous father.
I have so much more to tell but I can’t as I am hardly make this straight because I am shedding tears.
Always remember………………..
I LOVE YOU PAPA straight from my heart.
I have no regrets.
Your daughter,
EUGIELENE
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
Twin Fiona and Fayne
The purpose I am posting this is upon the request of my Aunt Arcelie which I like to do too. Well, I already posted their pictures here before when they were still 2 months old. I think you can find it in the archives section.
Another reason why Im posting this is for Ate Jenjen. Hello ate Jenjen, here are twin fiona and fayne. Actually, I have a lot of their pics but I got no chance to post it here because it cannot fit here so much. But if you want to see the other pic its in the flicker in the left side of this blog as well as jacob, jason and Ate Arcelie.
Tuesday, June 09, 2009
SEX, FAMILY and LOVE in accordance to GOD
Sex
It’s on billboards and TV, in magazines and movies. It’s in the music we listen to, and floods the internet. Sex is suggested by styles of dress. It’s been used to destroy the innocence of children and has made a mess of way too many lives.
Sex is definitely here to stay. Easy to get, anytime with whomever, no commitment, and no responsibility.
But sex has come a long way from the original design GOD intended. That’s right – believe it or not, sex was designed by GOD. He created men and women different physically for the purpose of sexual intimacy. Although one purpose for the sexual relationship is for bringing children into the world, GOD also planned for sex to be pleasurable.
Everything that GOD created has purpose. But it also has order. GOD’s design for sex, then, must be enjoyed within the boundaries of marriage, love, and a lifetime of commitment. Beyond this, sex results in confusion, conflict and chaos.
Outside marriage, sex does not build up self-worth, but rather destroys it. Those who use it as currency to “buy” things they want emotionally or physically end up bankrupt.
Sex that us practiced outside of GOD’s plan has long term consequences, like the heartache of unwanted pregnancies, abortion, rape and other forms of sexual abuse. Then there is the long list of tragic sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV/AIDS.
GOD’s design for sex is something quite the opposite and a whole lot better! Those who wait until marriage not only avoid the dangers of premarital sex, they are also setting themselves up for a lifetime of discovery, satisfaction and fulfillment within marital love. And that’s something worth waiting for
“If it feels good do it, right? Besides, we’re in love.” Thought 1
* There’s a lot of confusion about sex. But GOD’s plan is clear. He made sex for a husband and wife. This physical union is part of the commitment these two people share.
GOD”s desire is for you to be pure in every area of your life, including your sexuality.
* If you make the choice to wait to have sex until you are married, you will find that GOD is in the business of keeping you pure and helping you out when you are tempted. He offers strength and places in your heart the desire to do what’s right.
* If you have already had sex outside of marriage, GOD is in the business of second chances. He offers forgiveness and a fresh start.
If you have ever been forced to have sex, GOD is in the business of restoring what has been stolen from you. He offers healing and freedom from the pain of the past.
“It’s your choice” Thought 2
Family
The family is the most important social structure of any society. The choice of a lifetime marriage partner is certainly one of the most important decisions a person can make.
Every family is unique, with each marriage partner bringing experiences and values from his or her own family. Unfortunately, there is no such thing as a perfect marriage, a "marriage made in heaven." There are, however, principles that, if followed, will help each family to be all that GOD intended it to be.
First, is the foundation of love. Jesus demonstrated this principle by laying down his "rights" when he came to earth to live as a man and died onthe cross. If we truly love our spouse and our children, we would be living to lay down our lives so that they mights live in some emergency situation. The true test, however, is if we lay down our rights and demands on others inthe everyday situations of life. Love is proven not just by the words we say, but also by our actions.
Second, is the foundation of respect. Family members must show respect for each other, even when there is disagreement on a particular matter. This is where healthy communication plays an important role. If we offend in any way, we need to quickly ask forgiveness.
Third, is the foundation of commitment. No matter what happens, commitment is necessary for a family to survive. There are many voices in contemporary society that tell us if the marriage is not working, just get out. But this is not the solution. GOD is the solution and help can be found through prayer, studying GOD's word, and the wise counsel of those who love GOD.
Fourth, before you marry, be at peace with your own family as much as is possible. Unresolved conflicts will often be reflected later in the relationship you have with your husband/wife, children and in-laws. Ask forgiveness of those you have offended and forgive those who have offended you, no matter how deeply you have been hurt. Freedom comes when we learn to forgive others in the same way that GOD has forgiven us.
"I just can't get along with my family. I can't wait to leave home." Thought 3
Love
According to psychologists, the most basic human need is to love and be loved. There is no power greater than love. It can motivate people to do things for others they wouldn't normally do. Some even give up everything for the sake of the one they love.
But if love is such a beautiful thing, so essential to life, why is there so little if it in the world? Why is there so much hate? The answer is simple. True love is more than a sentimental, gushy feeling. Love is a decision, a choice we each must make. Teh greatest demonstration of love is to give our life for the person we love. GOD did that. Even before we were born, he demonstrated his great love for us when he gave his only son JESUS to die on the cross for our sins so we could have forgiveness and eternal life inhim. That is what love is. It gives, selflessly, even sacrificially. It unconditionally provides for the one that is loved.
This kind of love comes only from GOD, for GOD's very being is love. So when men and women rebel against GOD by settling up their own value system, rejecting the authority of GOD, they lose the very source of true love, that is GOD.
Away from the source, love becomes temporary rather than lasting. It becomes selfish and demanding. It seeks what it wants rather than the good of the one that is loved. It takes, rather thangives.
But when we connect with GOD, his love enables us to love others as he loves, even our enemies. We can love others without expecting or demanding anything in return. GOD's love gives and forgives. It is constant, dependable, and lasting. It fulfills and it satisfies the deepest need.
This kind of love is free and available. We only need to come and connect with GOD through his son JESUS CHRIST, and that love will flow freely in and through our hearts to others.
Friday, May 29, 2009
Getting rid of boredom!!
During boring times, I think the best thing I do is to take picture. Pose it like this and post is like that... I dont care how it looks atleast boredom gones with fake smiles and feelings hee heehee
Anyway, I dont remember when did I took this picture. I think it was last Month when I was in City Cafe 1 and then City Cafe 2. I am not so sure. But atleast nothing is change in my face. But actually, I was so bored at the time, and what you can see here is that I was like so enjoy.. Well, this is a fake feeling.. hee hee hee
Anyway, here is something I wanted to share to you especially girls like me. and for you to think .....
There is a girl who fall enlove to a stranger. Then there came another man who always make her day bad and ruins everything in her. Then this stranger will suddenly appear and help her and make her smile again. She wanted to ask this stranger but he is always silent, (a type of one question-one answer). And it happen to be that the stranger and the man she hated the most were friends since kindergarten. She was always laugh out in the street because of this man she hated always did something wrong for her. There is nothing she can do but to cry and cry. Then again this stranger came and lean her his shoulder to cyr on and let her borrow the handkerchief.
And so on.. and so on... The girl fall enlove the stranger but the stranger is also fall enlove to someone else. What happen is that the man that she hated the most fall enlove to her.....
What do you think to this LOVE TRIANGLE? What is the best thing to do and who is the nest one to choose!!
Take note: The girl got to know this man he hate, and she find out that he is not totally a bad person, he is sweet and romantic but just wild sometimes and she is used to it. But this stranger is like her hero and a knight in shining armour..
Why is it.....!!
But why is it like this?
Well, this is not only the first time I felt this way. Many times. But I just let it pass. But I feel different today, does it have meaning?... Well, as usual, I will just imagine and think what will happen... I often made a conlusion out of all my feelings..... always be "maybe its like this......, maybe its like that...." and I cant help myself but to come up in many conclusions. You know, advance thinking... They said that "its better to be advance than late".
Maybe this is just the fruits of my many imaginations. Maybe effect of my burdens. Abstract burdens. See, this is one of my conclusion.
So, nothing will change I will still have to make this pass and see what happen. I always like this. Beside, within my self I pray that maybe everything is for GOOD...
"EUGIELENE, Eugie" I need to trust GOD on everything..., He is the only one knows everything.
I will just sleep on this.....
Wednesday, May 06, 2009
Our Trip in Dumaguete
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Thank you!
That used to greet me each day.
Though the smile was now taken away
By someone who's in your way
Thank you for the best way
That makes you a special part of me.
Though the part was now taken away
By someone who's in your way.
Thank you for the love
That used to inspire me each day
Though the love was now taken away
By someone who's in your way.
Thank you for the sweet memories
That used to remind me each day
For I know, sooner they will fade away
For there is someone who is also waiting in my way.