You cannot say that you can live alone. You need your fellowmen. You need friends. But how can you have friends? This is how:
1) First, avoid criticizing. Remember that people have feelings. Criticisms often hurt. And it is but natural for a person to get angry with you if you have hurt his feelings. if he's angry with you, how can he be your friend?
2) Second, avoid arguing.You dont have to prove that what a person did or said was wrong. It is possible for a person to admit to his self that he is wrong but he will find it difficult to accept his mistake before others. If you show others that he is wrong, he will find ways to prove that he is right. He will feel very bad because his self-pride was hurt. Instead of having a friend, you will be gaining an enemy.
3) Third, learn to admit your mistake. If you are able to do this, others will have a high regard for you. They will be pleased with you and will praise you because of your outstanding character. Because of this, many will try to be close to you.
4) Fourth, learn to listen. To listen is difficult for a person who usually enjoys talking about his experience and the stories that he had read. Sometimes, he wants to do all the talking. Train yourself to listen well instead of talking often. Show to the person speaking that you are interested in what he's saying. This way you'll please him and he will be happy.
These are the ways of gaining friends and I'm sure that you'll succeed if you do these things. WHy don't you try?
GOD will lead the way. Keep the faith, hope and courage. Believe in miracle. There is no impossible to GOD. "Put GOD on top of everything you do and you wouldn't go wrong because in GOD we trust and nothing hard at all"
About Me
- Eugielene (Ladaga) Tulin Nonweiler
- I am born not rich but rich in love. I have a good family, good friends. I already taste the life's bitterness but also taste life's sweetness. I am just simple, Friendly and understanding. GOD fearing. I believe in GOD so much. I just cant explain it here but deep in my heart I know , I feel it.
Monday, August 29, 2005
Wednesday, August 24, 2005
My assignment
I supposed to make a Data Flow Diagram of my documentation of my subject software engineering but I have to finish first my assignment in Math. I love mathematics because I like solving. But sometimes it really makes me hard to find a solution of a certain problem, which has many unknowns. Ohhhh... being a student is not an easy task, if you really devoted to the study. It is not like just going to school to meet new friends or chatting with old friends or classmates. Some students do this, ofcourse. For me, we are sent to school not only to have friends or to be educate, we are here in the school to learn and make it useful for the future. Some educated people have not enough knowledge in their field they are taking. So, while we are here in the school, make use of time in learning more advance techniques, for this may add as an asset of your qualification................. tama ba ito, nakakahiya baka maling mali yong iba kung english...
The Gymnasium....
This is where we often makes our dance practices. We are doing our dance workshop. .. Can u see me in this picture? ... Well................... I am the one who wear that yellow-green shirt. I am facing my friend (Jarvies) I am making jokes with him.... I asked him " How many fish you already caught? heeheehee.......
But this afternoon, the gym is really very crowded... The people are watching the paintings in the wall, because today is also the opening of science centrum... My head is aching because I couldn't see any one of my co-dancers. I dont know where we are going to held our practice.. Maybe I will call my friend and ask....
Eugie
But this afternoon, the gym is really very crowded... The people are watching the paintings in the wall, because today is also the opening of science centrum... My head is aching because I couldn't see any one of my co-dancers. I dont know where we are going to held our practice.. Maybe I will call my friend and ask....
Eugie
The "Buwan ng Wika"...
Today, the sun is shining bright... I could even feel it in my skin.... awwwgg.
I am in the school, we are celebrating the "Buwan ng Wika" This is all about refreshing the essence of filipino traditions and cultures. So fun,,, we have many contest. But, though the day is good but I couldn't feel it because I am not feeling well....
I dont know what to write anymore... I have many thoughts but I cannot put it down, my mind is racing very fast.... ahhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhh..........
I am in the school, we are celebrating the "Buwan ng Wika" This is all about refreshing the essence of filipino traditions and cultures. So fun,,, we have many contest. But, though the day is good but I couldn't feel it because I am not feeling well....
I dont know what to write anymore... I have many thoughts but I cannot put it down, my mind is racing very fast.... ahhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhh..........
Tuesday, August 23, 2005
The Mercy of God....
Many people followed him and he cured them all, though he sternly ordered them not to make public what he he had done. This was to fulfill what had been said through Isaiah the prophet:
" Here is my servant whom I have chosen, my loved one in whom I delight. I will endow him with my spirit and he will proclaim justice to the Gentiles. He will not contend or cry out, nor will his voice be heard in the streets. The bruised reed he will not quench until judgment is made victorious. In his name, the Gentiles will find hope "
Matthew 12:16-21
Eugie : eugie_3784@yahoo.com
" Here is my servant whom I have chosen, my loved one in whom I delight. I will endow him with my spirit and he will proclaim justice to the Gentiles. He will not contend or cry out, nor will his voice be heard in the streets. The bruised reed he will not quench until judgment is made victorious. In his name, the Gentiles will find hope "
Matthew 12:16-21
Eugie : eugie_3784@yahoo.com
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